…and then we held hands.


A non-verbal cooperative game for two players. Challenging, intelligent, beautiful. Featuring art by Marie Cardouat.


…and then we held hands. is a co-operative game about finding balance. To win, the two players must complete objectives and reach the center of the board.

The players take turns trying to fulfill the current common emotional objective by discarding emotion cards to move from node to node. They must do this without verbal communication, empathizing and always considering each other’s situation when making a move.

A player can use their own cards or their partner’s, but if their move causes their partner to be unable to move, the players lose and the game ends. While moving from node to node, their balance shifts, and they are not able to refill their hand.

The game features a card-splaying mechanism in which players change their “perspective” to reveal a new set of options.

The players win by meeting in the center while in a balanced state and within one turn of each other – something quite difficult, and therefore very rewarding when achieved.

…and then we held hands. features art by beloved French illustrator Marie Cardouat, known for the art found in beautiful games such as Dixit, Steam Park, and Marrakech.

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Additional information

Weight 0,4 kg
Dimensions 182 × 124 × 25 mm


Play time

30-45 min




You can download the rules here (right-click and save to your desktop for the best view):





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  6. Note that prototype game materials are depicted below. The retail version of the game has finished art and proper cardboard & wood components.

  7. Rahdo

    For the main runthrough video, click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpkjVknnVh8

    For the extended game play video, click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEVDuiqH5Os

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    For the overview video, click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KfhgaHUAQ5U

  9. BGG Review of ...and then we held hands.

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